Purpose Who?

Happy Thursday Dolls,

Are you waiting on your purpose to be in purpose?  Each of us has been born with a purpose in mind. Sometimes life's experience may cause your purpose to become a bit distorted. Sometimes being in a relationship with a person can cause your purpose to fade into black. Sometimes being in the wrong environment can dry out your purpose. Sometimes seeking selfishly can deteriotate purpose. One things is for sure is no matter what the circumstances are your purpose is still embroidered in the fabric of your heart.  The heart of a person plans the way to purpose and guide steps of progression and completion. Start to take attendance on those who are apart of your life. Start to untie connections with things that doesn't promote your purpose. Start to evaluate your appetite to assure your giving your purpose the right nutrients. Let it be known that everything in your life should work together for the good of your purpose. Take inventory and apply pressure to your purpose..Trust me, if not you will not be living life but allowing life to live you.

P.S. I LOVE PURPOSE

Giving a little bit

Good Morning Dolls,

Have you ever pondered about all the craziness of our world? Its seems everyone is only out to gain. Wealth is the ultimate reward before humility and morality. This must be a continuous fight not to become conditioned of such a cruel and selfish world. I make it a personal goal of mind to stay humble and stay away from a selfish heart. I want to encourage you today to put your pull your hand in and lend it to someone in need. Find someone to bless...offer where there is lack. Giving is decided within the heart first, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for a cheerful giver is blessed. It is impossible for us to be expecting to receive without giving. I'm sure if you paid close attention, you may have plenty to give. Truth be told, loving someone today could be efficient.

P.S. I LOVE GIVING

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Rock on...

Happy Tuesday Dolls,

I am so excited to be posting this morning. Although I have been in a bit of a funk this past week I'm trying to rock myself out of it. I am not sure what caused the emotion to rise. I spoke with a couple of my close friends and all I kept hearing was how I was so blessed, not that I disagree, its just I wanted some guidance on how to eliminate the emotion. Which reminds me, not everyone will understand how or what your really experiencing. I started to except this funky, yucky, ugh feeling. Its real: feeling like you have to do more, its real: feeling as if what your moving toward isn't moving fast enough, its real: to get impatient, its real: to feel frustrated, its real: to feel like no one else gets it, its real: to feel like giving up. BUT it's not real is to stay in these emotions and allow them to overtake you. You must fight to not allow the circumstance to dictate your end result. This situation is bigger than you, its bigger than the problem itself. Its the very thing that builds character and determination, the very thing that eliminates the unproductive habits that kills destruction and distractions, its what connects with your purpose and allows you to walk with with a heart of victory. With every beat brings you closer to your peace. In GOD that is in you, that you may find your peace. The peace of GOD surpasses are human understanding. Remember,  life will happen, everything may not go according to how we always desire for it to happen. Whatever your emotion is for that moment..feel it...acknowledge it..deal with it! Trust the path of hope for it offers rocks to hold you up when you need to lean, it offers rocks to throw to get the enemies off your back, and rocks are offered because they tell your story without saying a word.

P.S. I LOVE ROCKS

Press toward the mark..

Good Morning Dolls,

What is the mark?... What have you set?...How are you going to start to assure you will finish? Although, we have life we should train ourselves to wake up with a goal in mind--setting the mark. Waking up with thoughts of moving forward in our minds. The mind will learn whatever you teach it, so lets make sure we are feeding it things to sustain us. We all can look to things as if they are mountains or defeat but rather than, look at things as if they are already accomplished. Go after all things that challenge you rather than things that cause you to live off of comfort . Living in the comfort zone only offers suppressed visions, while accepting challenges and moving toward goals build promotion. You want to continue to even though its seems all odds are against, this is the time to prepare even the more. Write your vision down, vision awaits its appointed time, it may seem slow, wait for it, it will surely come, it will not delay. What delays the vision is the lack to believe, the lack to move as if it's already completed or obtained.  Press toward the mark... get set and GO!

P.S. I LOVE TO PRESS TOWARD THE MARK

Things to do: Love Myself Part 2

Happy Tuesday Dolls,

Yes, this must continue to be a daily practice for you to train your mind to accept yourself. Flawed and all it's your responsibility to love yourself. Your mission should not be to change you, but to develop a better version. What seems to happen is that throughout life we allow people to speak non-sense over us and we begin to believe it. The world is full of judgmental people, who will always have an opinion about you. If you allow peoples opinions to move you in a way, that it strips you until you are left empty and unfulfilled. Those negative pieces remain in your mind and feeds your heart. You become unaware that you live life trying to overcome and fill up the voids that you allowed others to take away. No other person on earth should have this much of an influence to steal your thoughts and hand you thoughts of not being enough, incomplete, and looked over. The more you seek approval of man, the more you become displeasing to yourself, pleasing others abandons living for GOD. Ever notice while others have such a strong opinion about you they don't even measure up to their own opinion. Take a journey to get to know yourself, improves only what you desire to make better, you may find your not so bad after all.Words to remember is that fools are quick to voice their opinion about a person, but a wise person seeks to understand the person.

P.S. I LEARNING TO LOVE ME

Things to do: Love Myself..Part 1

Happy Frigid Friday,

It is freezing here in Chicago!! Schools has been closed for the past two days, which allowed me some me time. Although I was off work my husband had to still clock in. I was able to really spend sometime with myself. Its not often I am able to focus solely on me. I was still amazed on how much I am still learning about myself. I was faced with an astonishing fact that I finally admitted to on yesterday. I was thinking about how I was going to continue to workout even in the cold months...And I looked in the mirror and tears filled my eyes and the first thought that came to mind was WHY? Why-was it so important for me to stay on top of working out, Why-am I obsessed with eating healthy and make sure I don't eat this...or don't eat that, not to have too much of this...why I need to run more...why I need to tone this more...why why why????? The truth... to accept myself so that others can accept me. All my life I had been creating an image that others thought was normal...Whatever that is...I was trying to erase the thoughts of my childhood, delete the judgement that I allowed others to build then tear down. My forehead is too big, my cheeks are too big, my butt is too big, my shoulders are too broad, my feet are too fat and flat, my hands are too dark, my thighs are not toned enough, my stomach isn't flat enough....the list goes on and on. Truth of the matter is that some of these physical attributes never bothered me until it was given to me by others. After the tears I made a promised not to allow anyone to give me anything. Accept me for who I was created to be.. how am I able to accept and love others when its a struggle to accept and love myself???...to be continued
P.S. I NEED TO LOVE MYSELF

Stealing from students

Happy Mundane Monday Dolls,

Today, is a day I may need a bit of motivation. I have come back to work only to find, my classroom was broken into over the winter break. It really bothers me that someone would break into a school to steal from children/students. Let them who stole steal no more, but let them labor or work with his/her own hands to provide what is needed. My heart is overwhelmed and fighting back tears.  One of my students asked where our computers were. The thought that after a welcome back hug I had to look them in their eyes and deliver the news that things were stolen from our classroom over the break.  How mean and cruel is this world? The world/neighborhood we live in would find profit in stealing from a place that offers a chance at education. blah blah, i need a hug to sum it up....

P.S. I LOVE EDUCATION

A New...

Happy New Years Dolls,

Its a new year, a new chance at life, a new chance to revisit old visions that were lost last year, a new ability to walk into your purpose, and a new year to have a new outlook on you. Welcome the place to admire all the blessings you plan to reap this year. Thank GOD for another year for you, your family, and friends, embrace the ones you lost last year. Take sometime to reflect on the steps you didn't take in 2014, the admiration that was stolen, the times you thought about...but allowed defeat to take over, the moments that were broken into pieces from fear, the tears you felt streaming down your face from..., and most importantly the unfulfillment you forced upon yourself by allowing others to misguide you away from your true purpose and  misinterpret your true purpose. You are a new creation, cast down the old and allow it to pass away, behold the new has come. Remember you can make a way. I encourage you to talk yourself into believing it is possible. Why not...Wrap your thoughts around "it is already done". You must put on your hat to protect you mind from receiving others opinions, peer pressure, and false teachings, put on your coat to protect your heart from evil thoughts and self-hatred, put on your boots to kick any and everything aside that stands in your way. This is the year you shall become greater, this is the year you shall walk in purpose, this is the year you shall mature in your thoughts and behavior. No more looking at the glass half full or half empty..JUST FILL IT UP!

P.S. I LOVE NEW...