Monday's Mouthful

Happy Monday's Mouth Dolls,

Please consider what comes out of your mouth. Death or life lies in the power of your tongue. Let no corrupt or deceitful talk come out of your mouth, let it be to offer grace. Consider not giving an opinion on things you don't know about. Many people can sit back and past judgment onto any situation, but unless you know the journey the person has been on, it's best to give encouraging words than ones that predicts and/or plans their life. Some people rather not have their emotions and vulnerabilities exposed. Some may not be ready to deal with their reality. Either way it is not your place to ask inquiring questions that brings on uncomfortable space. Some questions are really not cool to ask...Stick to the "How have you been ?" or Whats been going on?". I'm sure people would appreciate them speaking on certain subjects rather you being rude. I just shared a mouth full rather being a big mouth..get it?

P.S. I LOVE SHUTTING MY MOUTH

Touchdown Thursday

Happy Touchdown Thursday Dolls,


There comes a time in life when you have to create an objective for every move you make. In life you want to score more points than the other teams. Yes, you may not want to think of life as a competitive game, but the truth is, life is all about the position you play and every move. Just think about it, there are times you have to be offensive and other times you have to be defensive. It may also seem like you can't make it through all the overtime you have to put in.  You may have to change positions every now and then, ones that are righteous and not violence provoking.  You have to stay in the game to win and not see the other team(s) as a threat. Look at it as an opportunity to run with the ball without going out of bounds. Since people will be envious and want to take what you have, my suggestion is, make them come get it! Let them understand, they have no control over how many fouls your penalized with.  Stay in the game, and while they are trying to figure out your next move, you keep getting the football across the opposing team(s) goal line and into the endzone and TOUCHDOWN!!! You should hear the fans cheering and see the haters walking out of the stadium. Until next game....you dominate...you control...you pass all players and run.

P.S. I LOVE THE GAME

Getting Over The Hump

Happy Getting Over The Hump Day Dolls,


The difference between the impossible and possible is your determination. Your eyes will only see as far as your endurance. Sometimes is all about getting over the hump. In fact, each step up to the hump presents a different challenge. Truth is, you must identify the challenge, develop a strategy, rejuvenate,  gear up with the proper tools, and go full steam ahead. Its all about getting over the hump which will offer you a different perspective to getting ahead. We all desire to build a tower, but the biggest mistake we make is not siting down first and counting the cost to see if we have enough to complete the tower. Otherwise we may lay the foundation and not be able to finish it. Prepare your work,  get ready to work in the field with your bare hands and gain some knowledge and wisdom concerning the hump. The heart of a man plans his ways, but he LORD establish his steps. What hump(s) do you have to get over?

P.S. I LOVE GETTING OVER THE HUMP

Love Day...

Happy Love Yourself More Day.

From this day forth, I promise to love myself first. I promise to take matters into my own hands before I look for a hand out from others. This day I promise to never second guess my first thought, regardless of others opinions. I promise to love me that has been so amazingly and miraculously made. From this day forth, I promise to love the LORD with all my heart, mind, and soul. This is the only way I can love myself. Happy Love Day!

P.S. I LOVE ME

I Love Love

Happy Love Day Dolls,

We maybe searching or waiting for, one thing for sure we can't hide from the love of GOD.. It will surely come find us and embrace us where ever we are. Meanwhile the love of others are condition based. It's with motives of gaining something in return. If you ask yourself, what does GOD desires from you to gain such love? It maybe personal, however obedience, time, and love maybe be at the top of GOD's list. Well, to be obedient you have to believe in a consequence. Spending time, you have to believe in the intimacy. To love, you have to believe in its worth. Whoever believes in GOD will also do the work.  Believing in GOD is not to see HIM. It is not correlated to blessings being released. Blessings are bestowed over those who have not seen and yet believe. It's a feeling that speaks to you, that comforts you.  If you allow the love to contain you it will surely multiply. Enjoy the free things in life... GOD's Love. As we embark upon Valentines Day, know that believing in the love that GOD has for us is the beginning of believing in loving yourself.

P.S. I LOVE LOVE

REALITY CHECK

Social Media Frenzy,

I am a little bit confused about the purpose of social media. I mean is there anything considered private anymore? Before you go posting your life story, consider the purpose or intent. I'm not sure who people are trying to impress these days. People seem to be more and more disconnected from THEIR reality and portraying those on TV. Social media was once intended for keeping up with long distance close family and friends and now it  has turned to a Reality TV Showdown.  We should not allow sites to encourage us to be more public about private matters. Intimate details all over the net are being tagged, which give strangers a view into your personal life without filters. I'm just saying... I have seen some of the photos that are being posted, and I must be honest and say " what are we advertising?" "Who are be pretending to be?" And why?  Be honest with yourself, your are not covering up or concealing anything, that isn't already known. Therefore whatever you have posted or said in a condescending way, will be brought to the light. Do better by yourself and those around you. Real and truthful people can distinguish between meaningful relationships and relationship that are seeking meaning. Stop focusing so much of your time on psychic energy and more time making a real connection with the people you hold near your heart.  Stop setting yourself up for a delusion life, that is senseless and hold no depth. You are worth more than you think..lets start displaying more acts of compassion, love and truth. The world is in desperate need of truth and what is really REAL.
Embrace your reality? Oh, forgive me, where is my manners. Happy Birth Day Facebook!

P.S. I LOVE REAL

WHAT IS YOUR REALITY?

Social Media Frenzy,

I am a little bit confused about the purpose of social media. I mean is there anything considered private anymore? Before you go posting your life story, consider the purpose or intent. I'm not sure who people are trying to impress these days. People seem to be more and more disconnected from THEIR reality and portraying those on TV. Social media was once intended for keeping up with long distance close family and friends and now it  has turned to a Reality TV Showdown.  We should not allow sites to encourage us to be more public about private matters. Intimate details all over the net are being tagged, which give strangers a view into your personal life without filters. I'm just saying... I have seen some of the photos that are being posted, and I must be honest and say " what are we advertising?" "Who are be pretending to be?" And why?  Be honest with yourself, your are not covering up or concealing anything, that isn't already known. Therefore whatever you have posted or said in a condescending way, will be brought to the light. Do better by yourself and those around you. Real and truthful people can distinguish between meaningful relationships and relationship that are seeking meaning. Stop focusing so much of your time on psychic energy and more time making a real connection with the people you hold near your heart.  Stop setting yourself up for a delusion life, that is senseless and hold no depth. You are worth more than you think..lets start displaying more acts of compassion, love and truth. The world is in desperate need of truth and what is really REAL.
Embrace your reality? Oh, forgive me, where is my manners. Happy Birth Day Facebook!

P.S. I LOVE REAL

Selfie Monday

Note to Sefie Monday,

Don't allow anyone to diminish what makes me me. Never allow others to dismantle what has been put together by GOD. Don't be bothered with those and others who look in a half empty glass and wonder who drank what's missing, rather embrace those who work hard to pour back into the glass. Dismiss all forms and structures of filthy, unapologetic blood sucking thrives that live off my sweat, wisdom, wealth, and my wonderfully wrapped worth. Dont entertain those who look at the height of my stature and judge the appearance, rather involve those who looks into my heart. These memos of what not to feed will sustain me for my purpose in life. In this note to self find yours.

P.S. I LOVE SELFIE